August Life

August was quite a month. It felt very strange to be in August without having just finished summer camps, without have our pool filled with kids on a regular basis. We were allowed to return to visiting most of our kids in most of the facilities. There were new regulations and hoops to jump through. Masks at all locations, having a negative covid test at another, at a couple of locations they established a sanatying tunnel that you walked through and got sprayed down with disinfetant. Our staff was willing to go through whateve hoops necessary to be able to be physically present. We were able to start up different programmng and meet weekly or bi-weekly with most of the kids! For me, August was a balance between caring for Ruthie and Karla, helping get ministries back up to full functioning levels and event planning! We had two weddings in August, both of which I coordinated. The first was Bella and Marian. They got married in the Team House back yard. It turned out to be a lovely event and everyone was very pleased with how it turned out.

The second was actually a reception for Melissa and Nicu. They were officially married in June after having to postpone from their orginial April date. They had it a event hall close by. There was a unity ceremony and reception. It was a very nice day and extra special because a handful of the kids from the orphanages were given permission to come and be part of the day.

After two weddings in two weeks I was able to take a quick breath. I was able to take a small group to the seaside for the day.

We finished the month by celebrating Daria's 5th birthday.

We were wrapping up a small, energetic team mainly from Michigan when the first clue that something was about to happen to change things up hit. We had two days left with the team. My staff arrived back at the team house with the news that there was a document on the gate at one of our orphanages that said because of the Corona Virus outside visitors were not allowed in. We were allowed in on that day, but the next a full quarantine was issued and our team was not allowed to spend their last day visiting the kids. While this was difficult for them, we were very thankful for the timing of the closure. Missing one day was tough, but getting here and not being allowed to see the kids for one week or even two would have be very difficult.

We celebrated lots of birthdays with the team. Karla turned 5, Eric turned 2, Nicu turned 22 and I turned 46! We got the Michigan plus team sent back to the US. We all figured this quarantine would last a week or two. Like most people, we scoffed at the idea that it could be a month or longer. The thought of not being able to get into the centers for longer then 1-2 weeks unfathomable. We reassured the kids that called daily and some hourly and by the minute that we would be back as soon as we could. Two weeks in, we realized that this might last a month, so we started to adapt our ministry. We were able to continue academic tutoring online for the most part. We even saw an increase in studying habits for some kids because they didn’t have much else to do! Our staff would also call and give weekly challenges for memorization of verses and math facts etc. We began having youth group on Facebook live one evening a week. By the end of April, we were past the thoughts that this would be over shortly, but surely wouldn’t last into summer. We continued to do what we could through online venues. We planned a special worship night online. Our kids love to sing! I thought my parents might enjoy tuning in to our little concert so I called to tell them to get online. My call to my parents came a few minutes after my Mom had gotten the call that my Dad was Covid positive and being put into Intensive Care. Within a day my Dad was on a ventilator and I was trying to find a way back to the US. “Impossible!” I was told. “Maybe after a few weeks.” But God opened a door and a week later I was in Kansas. It was a difficult decision to go. Not because I didn’t want to go and be with my family, because I desperately did, but I had no clue how long I’d be gone and no clue of when I’d be allowed back into Romania. Ironically, 20 years after Jim issued me the challenge that I couldn’t return back to Romania until I was able to tell God “I’ll stay for as long as you want me to.” I was returning to the US with the same idea. I knew I’d be in the US for as long as God wanted me to. The control was totally taken out of my hands. Most of you walked through the journey of my family with my Dad in the hospital. It was a rollercoaster ride of lots and lots of ups and downs with many moments when we thought my Dad wasn’t going to make it through, but 47 days later he came home. Words cannot express my families’ thankfulness for all of the many prayers and support offered through the H2H family. My Dad received cards from many of you and messages and endless prayers. So often he’d ask “do you know who this person is?” and almost always it was someone from a H2H team. We’ve always run H2H as a family. It is one of the things that I love about what I do, and the tangible showing up of my H2H family when my biological family was in crisis is something that I will never forget. We were so very moved and touched and humbled.

A few pics of my Dad in the hospital and getting released! While in Kansas I saw two of my nephews graduated from high school, got to wedding dress shop with one of my nieces, and my family had a celebration of life reception to celebrate my parents 50th anniversary.

Through another set of impossibilities I was able to return to Romania in July. God was so very good and faithful in so many ways. While all of that was happening with my family, the staff here continued to walk faithfully through the unknown and show up for the kids in what ever way allowed. Slowly, the doors were and have been opening for us to see the kids again. It is usually in a very small group setting, but we are so glad to be able to be physically present in their lives once again. We had to forgo summer camps, but we are being creative in ways to still be present. We’ve been able to do some VBS style day camps and we’ve started weekly youth group meetings in most locations. We are planning a drive in movie night at one location and continue to try to bring little pieces of joy into their days. I believe one of the most important aspect of H2H ministry is showing our kids glimpses of God. We want them to know that He is there through everything, so we try to be there throughout. I know that this season and crisis has been one more example to our kids that even through a pandemic H2H didn’t forget us and fought to be present in our lives. If they can see that and trust that maybe, over time they can trust in our God who is always present and always longing to be part of our lives.

Life Takes a Turn

So, the big subject of the month has been the Corona virus and the effect it is having on each and every one of us. Here in Romania March 11, they announced that all of our facilities were under quarantine, so we couldn't go into the different orphanages and visit. This announcement was followed by school being cancelled for 2 weeks. I thought that things would pass pretty quickly as Romania tends to overreact when it comes to this sort of thing. So for the first week I kept Ruthie and Karla, who were also out of school and it kind of felt like a spring break. We had been needing to replace one of our refridgerators and while Jim was here we were able to purchase one. It was delivered and the highlight of week 1 was painting it and turning the box into Karla's house. We also went down to the camp and spent a day painting. The girls came along and spent the day playing with Chi Chi. Al the end of week one Romania went from recommending staying home to making law. The law says that no one is allowed outside of their house without a document that gives details that you are doing one of the approved activities. There are police and military out checking people's documents. It has been a challenge for sure, but we are trying to use the time constructively. We've worked on cleaning and organizing, planning for camps, plus trying to do as many activities on line with kids as we possibly can. We had a facebook live youth group this week. One comment that has been made many times is that these type of restrictions and police/military presence reminds Romanians of the time of communism. Though this is a different root, it is interesting to get a small taste of what it is like to not have freedom of movement. I'm so thankful for all of the freedoms we do have and am thankful for all of the blessings that we've been experiencing through this time. One of those blessings has been extra time in study and prayer. I've been reminded over and over that we are to have a spirit of joy not fear. I also have been counting my blessings and among those blessings is my family, the H2H family, all of my kids here, all of the wonderful people that I've met through all of these years, my church families both here and in the US, and an amazing group of people that love and support me in so many ways. Please be in prayer for our kids. They are confined with different levels of care and attention. Also, please be in prayer for h2h funding. This crisis has definitely effected our funding. We know that God is in control and are waiting with expectation to see Him work in amazing ways.

March Team!

The end of February we had a team of 6 women arrive. Five were from Michigan and one from Illinois plus Jim. Four of the 6 had been here before and so it was a pretty seasoned team. They stayed for two weeks and we packed them full. The first day they were here we had a staff vision summit. Jim and I spoke to the staff about 20/20 vision and the direction that H2H is heading. Jodi sent some fun decor and games and the team made lunch for us as we met. It was a great time to regroup and make sure that we are all on the same page. Day two, we went to church and then had a big birthday bash at Pipera. It was a perfect time for a family party since we hadn't had a h2h family event since New Year's. Karla's birthday was Feb. 26, mine March 3, Nicu's March 5th. and Eric's March 6th. So instead of 4 separate parties- how about 1 big one! Karla turned five, so she had an LOL table and cake and Eric turned 2 so his was Cars. We had a fun afternoon. We had a pinata, gifts, cake and fun time together. The team had lots of good time visited kids in all of our different locations. Being the first part of March, Romania celebrates Martisori, which is the end of Winter the begining of Spring. The colors are red white and flowers are the norm, so the team did lots of Martisori crafts with lots of different groups of kids. We also spent 3 days down at our camp facility (the boys transition house). The team visited groups of kids in Rdv, but we also started painting the club for our summer camp theme. I enjoyed this group. It was a great two weeks of serving together!

The Least of These

When I returned from furlough I was ready to get back and jump in. My staff did an amazing job holding down the fort in my absence, but I always feel like a teacher who has had a sub and I get back and have to figure out where everything is at. It went smoothly though, and after just a few days it didn't feel as if I'd been gone! Last fall, Corni and I began making weekly visits to one of our newer facilities. This is a place we got in contact with about two years ago when we had some of our kids from another facility transferred there. We started regular visits with Melissa and Heather last year and then Corni and I took it over this year. It is a catch-all type of place. The state uses it for all of the cases in the county that they don't know what to do with. There are moms with kids that need shelter, teen-age moms that are pregnant or recently gave birth and don't know where to go, kids that have been recently put in the system and they are not sure which facility to place them in, and kids that are under disciplinary action. Because of all of the different types of cases that come through some kids are there for a long time and others its a short stop over. When we first started there were 16 people there, now there are 28. When we go we try to do something beneficial for them. We've done educational tutoring for the older ones and developmental activities for the younger. We try to do art, stories, Biblical teaching, games and other things to break up their days. If we have free time the favorite game to play is farkle. It has become quite the hit. When I returned from furlough and we made our first visit we were in for a bit of a shock. There are two new teen age boys that are there because their behavior got them removed from home or other facilities. From the second they walked in they were rude, aggressive, mocking, and very disruptive. Horrible language and hand gestures were also present and within a few minutes one had physically threatened Corni with a stick. The next week we found out that one of them had beaten up a guard and the police were called. They chose not to do anything since he's already in a disciplinary facility. The moms and other kids are scared and there is definitely a feeling of fear and chaos. This last week, the more disruptive of the boys didn't come to our group and the other participated with some redirection. I, at least, saw that he was able to be molded and took some direction. Later the more disruptive boy came in and our Valentine bingo game was quickly ended when he started throwing big chunks of bread at us and laughing. I've worked with lots of kids over the years and in my background of kids with Emotional Behavior disorders this is not the first I've had this type of experience. As Corni and I've been talking about how we are going to handle him and the time with this group, we've talked a lot about this boy. What has he lived through to be this angry? What kind of atmosphere does he come from to know all of the vulgar word, phrases and actions that he uses. How does God see him? How do we deal with the others kids and keep them safe? We know that we as Christians are called to love the least of these. That includes this boy. How? We are still figuring that all out, but for now it means that we are praying for him and for the safety of the others in this facility. It also means we will keep showing up. We will start each time there with a smile and a fresh start. We will treat him with respect, even if he doesn't treat us with it. We will invite him to participate, even if would be easier if he wasn't there. I don't know if it will work the way we hope, or how long this boy will be around. But I do know that we serve a God who specializes in miracles of changing the least likely into usable vessels. Please Lord, work a miracle in this boy's heart!

Furlough

I was able to be back in Kansas from Jan. 8-Feb. 8. People always say, "wow a month! That's a long time!" In some senses it is, but the time always flies by. Furlough for a missionary means a break from day to day ministry, which is great a very much needed. It also means speaking in churches and small groups, meeting with the church missions board, meeting with individual supporters, doctor and dentist visits, financial fun (like getting money put away for retirement and getting your taxes done--yep we pay taxes!), shopping for things that you want to take back, and spending time with people that you love, just to name a few. This year I also put a quick trip in out to CA to meet with Jim and Jodi and to have some face to face time. It was a great month. I had many very special moments and I've very thankful to all that took time to meet with me and pitch in in different ways to make me feel special and get me ready to return!